A guest blogger today…Stefanie. She is taking control of her life! Stopped the wedding because things were “not right”. Are you going into a marriage that doesn’t feel right?
Should you change seats?
Obstructed View: A Metaphor
Are you the type to accept obstructed view seats?
If you went to a movie and found what you thought to be a great seat, but then a very tall person with very big hat sat in front of you… would you just let that happen? Would you stay in your comfortable seat trying to peak around that big hat for the whole show? What a waste! It may be uncomfortable for just a second, but ask that person (politely) to remove their hat. You can keep your comfy seat and maybe that person will think twice about wearing a giant hat to the theater in the future.
Or you could take a chance and change seats. Yes, it will be cold at first, and yes, there may be gum on the floor, and no, the new seat won’t have your butt print and yes, it requires a modicum of effort on your part…. but I’ve seen the previews to this film, it’s amazing (I just changed seats myself)! You won’t want to miss it.
If you are unhappy with your life—your ‘seat’—then change it! You are the only person who has the power to do it. Don’t accept an obstructed view. We were all meant to enjoy the show to its fullest.
Well said Stef! You won’t regret changing seats. You have a grand life ahead!
